Wyatt and Dalton Ables were, two Twin Five Year old boys, full of inspiration and wonder. They looked at each new day as a day of adventure and time with someone they loved and appreciated. Their mother, Brandy Ables, has been a friend of mine since middle school and she is one of the most loving mothers that I have known. she has helped me and many others in times of need. For those of you that have not been following the news, her two boys were taken from her. Brandy was in the process of getting a divorce from David Ables after years of arguments, differences and some abuse as well. They were both struggling to come to terms with things that divorce brings and from what I know, Brandy was not asking for much. She wanted to get back on her feet and learn to live the life of an independent woman and mother who could be strong for her twin boys. Brandy had gotten a place of her own, secured a good job and was working to provide a future for these two beautiful children. A few days ago, the unexpected happened…
On March 5, 2011, David had custody of the two boys in Foster, Oklahoma and for whatever reason, he made an awful and terrible decision. David called Brandy and left her a message telling her how he felt about the divorce and to check his facebook, where he left a message that was already received far too late. He decided to take the lives of the two boys, with the assumption that he would be able to travel with them both to heaven. On that day, Wyatt and Dalton Able lost their lives, their future and the lives of many were heartbroken. Their mother, Brandy Ables, is left to deal with the pain and memory. In time she may share more of her story to help others, but this is her story now and she needs time to grieve and heal. So does her family. Everyone has questions and wants answers, but we all need to be patient, friends, family, the media. Remember, these are real people affected by this. How would you feel if it happened to you? What would you do?
Brandy is a sincere, wonderful and loving person. She has done much for her community and has been a nurse here in Oklahoma. This is something that no one really knows how to deal with. She has not been able to work during all of this and we want to make sure and look out for her in this time of need. Please share your strength, love and support. Let us all, Treat each other with kindness and learn to appreciate one another more and work to improve our communication and work to resolve any issues everyday and moment that we can.
The Wyatt and Dalton Ables Tragedy fund is setup through MIDFIRST Bank and if you wish to make a donation directly please contact Midfirst Banks in Oklahoma at 1.888.643.3477 and let them know .
WE are having a fundraiser and silent auction of art and other goodies that will be held at Jazmoz Bourbon Street Cafe in Bricktown, OKC on April 2st at 6pm until 10pm, the information can be found on here http://ablesboys.eventbrite.com/ sponsored by Jazmoz and So6ix Magazine.
Special thanks to Barnes School of Real Estate, Chik Fil A of Moore, and Jazmoz for helping support a smaller family and friends fundraiser during the month of March. We would also like to extend our thank you and appreciation to the family and friends that have been a constant support to Brandy as she works through this.
Thank you for your support and never forget this. Don’t let it happen to you, someone you love or anyone else for that matter. Take a stand now!!!
***Far too many times abuse and sickness goes ignored or unnoticed. I know of many times that I have had friends in need that have sought help from womens shelters and other organizations that could not provide them with help. One excuse was because a friend had moved out and filed for separation and because she was not living in the house of abuse, they could not help her. Yet, her husband, still had visitation and shared custody. We need better investigation services and perhaps interviews with family and friends. Regardless, there are many things that need to be changed in the world and far too many of us blame others or put the responsibility on someone else. It is time for all of us to step up and look out for one another. No one is perfect, but we can all strive to improve our lives and the lives of those around us.
When you see someone sick, distressed, or in need of help, please do not ignore them. Stand Up for those in Need. Get people the help they need. Be grateful for what you have and try to do for others when you can.
Please Do Not Ignore Warning Signs, no matter how small they may be!!!
There is also a support group on Facebook if you would like to share your stories, contribute, and work to help others. The Facebook memorial Page is here.
Obituary and Memorial info:
http://www.woosterfuneralhomes.com/visitations/View.php?id=569
My prayers go out to you. I pray God gives you strength, in time comfort but most of all He wraps his arms around you during your time of heartache. I will pray for you everyday.
Most Sincerely,
Sylvia Jackson
Thank you Bryan for your lovely words. I know Brandy will love the article you wrote.
Brandy’s Mom
Camelia Drake
Our prayers and heartfelt sympathy go to you all. Such beautiful boys, and lives that should have been full of promise.
Shirley Lawler-Snell and George Snell
Robert and I cannot begin to know what you and your family are going through at this horrible time. Know that you are in our prayers every night and that we know that God will get you through this.
Sharon Williams
When the news reached us of this horrible tragedy, I didn’t have words to fit the emotions. Just know you are thought of and prayed for around the world. I just hope you can find some solace in knowing people care and care deeply.
I am heart sick for the whole family~~~keepng all of you in my prayers so you can heal with God’s love.
May you find some bit of comfort in the peace of the Lord during this sad time. Many hugs.. Lynn
My heart cries out for you and your family for the tragic loss of Wyatt and Dalton. It’s incomprehensible how anyone could so sefishly, cruelly, take the lives of young, innocent children, especially their own.
May you find strength and courage through your faith and friends and family.
With prayers for all, Tricia Young
One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
other times there were one set of footprints.
This bothered me because I noticed
that during the low periods of my life,
when I was suffering from
anguish, sorrow or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.
So I said to the Lord,
“You promised me Lord,
that if I followed you,
you would walk with me always.
But I have noticed that during
the most trying periods of my life
there have only been one
set of footprints in the sand.
Why, when I needed you most,
you have not been there for me?”
The Lord replied,
“The times when you have
seen only one set of footprints,
is when I carried you.”
This is the most loving comment anyone could have left! It is my favorite poem ever written. It says it all! I’m am the sister of David’s ex wife. I met Brandi a time maybe 2. From what I could tell, she was a very sweet girl. I hate that she has to though this pain. I pray that God holds her tight and helps her through this!!
My heart is breaking for you, Camille. What a senseless lose of two gorgeous young men. I am praying that God wraps you and Brandy in His protective arms and somehow helps you find some peace and comfort. My prayers are with you. Big Hugs! Barbara
BRANDY, MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU. THIS IS JUST SUCH A TRAGIC LOSS. MAY YOU FIND REST AND COMFORT IN GOD’S ARMS. REMEMBER THAT WE ARE HERE FOR YOU WHEN YOU NEED US.
I cry with you but the boys are in a good place now. Nothing can hurt them. Peace to you.
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This is the most loving comment anyone could have left! It is my favorite poem ever written. It says it all! I’m am the sister of David’s ex wife. I met Brandi a time maybe 2. From what I could tell, she was a very sweet girl. I hate that she has to though this pain. I pray that God holds her tight and helps her through this!!
dear brandy–my heart just hurts so much for you. to hear this tragic news just breaks my heart everytime i think of it. i remember the boys from childrens church when i volunteered. they were just so special. all boy–wow they could really throw a football even at age 3. they loved london bridge and puzzles too. you are in my thoughts and prayers and I know that God will see you through this tradegy. i know the twins are in heaven and have a very special angel assigned to them. please accept my deepest and most sincere thoughts and prayers.
Gods peace be with you always,
glenda perry